Superior Self - Blog

Use Your Smart Watch to Increase Your Steps!

1/21/2019

We are so fortunate to be living in the modern age. There are gadgets and tools for making life easier and more convenient, allowing us to save time to do the things we really want to do. We have smart watches like Fitbit to increase steps every day. There are motivational apps to send messages to remind us to move our bodies, relax and wind down, and even track our sleep cycles!

My niece gave me a Fitbit for my 53rd birthday on October 26, 2018. I was a little hesitant to use it because I am not very tech savvy. Dannelle walked me through every fear and every function of the Fitbit during our time of celebration.

The device hasn’t left my wrist since then! I love using it to track my sleep, my hot yoga, my Pilates classes, and my walking. I walk a lot during the evenings when I am serving food and beverages in a restaurant. If I am folding napkins in the back room and I see a notification pop up that says, “Only 90 more steps to go to make it to 250 steps this hour!” I get up from the chair and walk around in the back room, maybe getting out some supplies or something needed for the floor. The Fitbit vibrates to remind me to move! I like the motivational accessories built into the programming.

Usually I have completed 10,000 steps by 8 pm and I work until almost 11 pm. On days when I hike before work, I can hit 17,000-24,000 steps! Even shopping at a mall has taken on a fitness theme. I see how many steps I can go before succumbing to coffee!

I hope this motivates you, sweet readers, to keep on moving!

Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

Visit me at www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com
Superior Self with KJ Landis
This website is a marriage of science and spirituality, nutrition facts, and support to get you to your superior self!
www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com

Group Meditation or Solo?

1/14/2019

When pondering the dive into meditation, we have so many questions at first. One important decision is whether to begin a meditation practice at home versus in a group setting.

I teach silence as a healer in some of my workshop offerings. I also have been meditating regularly for 6 years, both alone and in group settings.

My experience shows me that when first learning how to meditate (and there are many paths) one should seek out a class or group and stick with them only. Do not try different styles and classes without a full effort in one style. It slows down progression. After one has a few weeks of classes, whether once a week or more, then continue the practice as homework at home in a quiet space.

After 5 years of meditation by myself, focusing on only a daily 2 minutes to begin with in my car before work, or 2 minutes after a hot yoga workout, I signed up for a 12 day meditation course which was aimed at silence and scanning the body. I stayed at the course location, with no cell phones or to-do lists. The intensity of the group practice 12 hours a day or more and private practice in my bedroom at the retreat was a wonderful opportunity to figure this meditation thing out.

I think when we go it alone or only with an app on the cell phone it is easy to get distracted in the head as well as with the outside world. Once we have mastered tuning out, then the home practice becomes stronger.

It is always a struggle though. The thoughts and feelings do creep in, and sometimes while practicing home meditation, the grocery lists, tv shows, and music do take over my quiet time.

I think it is important to take time out once in a while and go back to a class setting. The group energy of everyone focusing on the same thing helps to strengthen one’s personal and private practice.

I hope this helps you.
Blessings,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-Life and Wellness Coach
-Nutrition Educator
-CPT, CFI

Visit me at www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com

Simplifying Our Lives

1/7/2019

During the New Year and during spring cleaning efforts we usually attempt to simplify our lives. What is that exactly?

Simplifying our lives can be in the mind and in our actions. It means ridding one of the thoughts and deeds which do not serve us. This is easy to say, but harder to do, as we live in a very modern and busy world with a lot of “stuff” and a lot of busyness.

It is helpful for us to simplify because it leaves a space for creative thoughts, imagination and playfulness to dwell.

Simplifying the mind can be doing one activity that is so new and difficult that we cannot focus on anything else. That allows the negative thoughts and mind fog to dissipate. It brings a ensemble of calm and happiness over time. Meditation is a way to simplify the mind too. Focusing on the breath, a candle, or a sound can allow a “shelf” to open up inside where there is nothing on it. We are more productive when we simplify the mind a little bit every day.

Simplifying the actions we do can be as easy as saying “no” to invitations and events that do not serve us or our inner purposes. This frees up time and space to really go after our goals. Another way to simplify our lives through action is to rid our dwellings of things we really do not use or receive joy from. I clean out my closet and trinkets monthly, allowing only the most memorable items to remain. This simplifies the home, making cleaning easier as well as making the home a sanctuary instead of a cluttered place. The stuff is just stuff, and we cannot burden ourselves with consumption. It takes too much energy to keep track of it all.

I hope this has helped your readers.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator
- Happy, Healthy You, now available everywhere and in audio format!

Essential Oils as Perfume

12/31/2018

I have been teaching essential oils for healing for five years now and using them even longer. Many people are interested in essential oils as a natural source of a scent for fun, not for healing. We must first notice that essential oils come from the plants around us, either from the leaves, fruits, flowers, roots, or seeds.

In order to make them last longer as a perfume on the skin, we must first realize that our olfactory senses get immune to the scent after a half hour or so. That’s why we initially can smell the aroma of perfumes, but others who enter our space can smell them even after some time and we can no longer smell them.

I suggest increasing the amount of drops of essential oil to carrier oil ratio for a longer lasting scent. For example, I usually use 10 drops of essential oil in a 1/2 ounce vial with grape seed oil as the carrier. If it is a non irritating oil like geranium or lavender, I may use 20 drops from my dropper in the same amount of carrier oil. That will enhance the time frame the scent stays on the skin. It will also make it stronger initially.

Where we put the oils also has an affect on time. If we want a longer lasting fragrance, I suggest putting a little oil on the scalp and at the nape of the neck at the hairline. The head holds about 49 percent of the body’s heat and is emanating heat off of it. This lets the aroma waft up and out for a long time when compared to the dab of oil on the wrists.

As far as layering flavors, I’m pretty much a fan of food scents staying with food scents and florals layering with florals. For example, let’s have vanilla and orange as a combo, but I wouldn’t use cinnamon and gardenia as a combo. The most powerful scent will last longer than the softer scent. We initially smell the softer scent but the stronger scent will last longer. I always use a carrier oil such as grape seed oil or for a harder fat, coconut oil.

I hope this has helped you, dear readers.
Blessings,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

Food Found Anti-Oxidants

12/24/2018

We all love a quick and easy fix in vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. That's why supplement companies make billions. More often than not, antioxidants work well in the body when found in their natural state: they are found naturally in food, specifically in plants!

The best food sources of antioxidants are those plant foods that are richly colored. The darker the pigment, the more antioxidants the foods contain. Antioxidants help with the cells’ natural damaging caused by free radicals, those substances that are in junk foods, pollution, and other unnatural sources of energy for the body.

Pomegranate seeds, blueberries, dark leafy greens are examples of foods rich in antioxidants. Extra dark chocolate, green beans, and kale are also examples of foods rich in antioxidants. As you can see, some bitter foods like dark chocolate, kale, and pomegranate are especially rich in antioxidants. The tannins, which are the bitter and acidic properties contain some pretty powerful antioxidants. Darker and even odd colored foods, like purple (plums, berries, eggplant, heirloom cauliflower) have a potent punch to the "bad guys" living in and around the body.

Plant food does a body good! Grandma was right in her advice to "eat your vegetables."

I hope this helps your readers.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

Has Food Shaped Your Identity?

12/17/2018

Food helped shape my childhood identity. My parents were the children of immigrants from the former Soviet Union, Hungary, and England. Before gift giving moments, like birthdays, Bar Mitzvahs, Bat Mitzvahs, and family weddings, my mother always used to make us five kids help her carry down the largest wooden cutting board from the attic. It had a lip which made it grasp the edge of the table. She would use it for making Hungarian pastries. Mama Hilda learned this from her mother and grandmother. The pastries were like rugalach or Hamentashen, some small Jewish flaky pastries filled with nuts, jams, or poppy seed paste. I used to love helping roll out the dough on the giant weathered wooden board. The flour would fly, we would put loud jazz on the radio, and have a ball! Then we would spread the fillings out and make the scroll shaped pastries. Ah, the aroma the whole house was consumed in! Mama Hilda always said that baking was a science and cooking was an art. She used to put club soda and 7-up in the dough to make it rise and be flakier then the other mothers’ pastries. That was her secret for winning the baking contests at the school fundraisers during the years. People came to donate to the school just to enjoy the baked goods my mom provided with love.

My identity as a young girl was intertwined with my mother's baking and cooking. She held great pride over her cooking and baking and would not sit down herself to enjoy the foods unless we said it was delicious, marvelous, great, the best we had ever eaten. Otherwise she would get upset and leave the kitchen and retire to the back porch with a cigarette. This instilled in me a need for being approved of by others, and a sense of perfectionism. So, thinking back, Hungarian pastries are the food that defined my childhood identity.

I hope this blesses your readers with some memories of their own!
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

What Does "Healthy" Mean?

12/10/2018

I’m a published author with four books, and I teach wellness workshops all over the SF Bay Area. This passion towards health began when I lost 50 pounds almost 7 years ago and began researching the most current scientific data surrounding food as fuel. What I learned I shared with others and began coaching others towards their healthier and happier selves. I began taking university course with certifications in movement, psychology, and nutrition. This opened my eyes to new research that was contrary to the past 70 years of health advice, like eat low fat or no fat, and eat less-move more for lasting fat loss.

What does it mean to be healthy? For me, it is an inner happiness and peace that moves outward through the body affecting the organs and tissues. Our minds are so powerful that we have to begin there. The mindset and support system around us can affect whether we are physically healthy or not. Be selfish. Use time to meditate, pray, and move. Remove toxic people from your circle, even if they are family. Then we can work diligently on the body’s systems without regret.

When we have abundant energy and less aches and pains we can turn our attention to helping the loved ones around us without resentment. That is a healthy and happy human!

I hope this helps you, dear readers.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

What a Mess!

12/3/2018

How Mess Can Affect Your Mind

We have all lived in a messy home at some point, and you have likely heard that a clean home results in a clean mind. There is a lot of truth to the saying, as your environment often reflects the way you are feeling. Mess can have a lot of negative impacts on your mental and physical health, so it is worth taking the time to try and clean up as much as you can. Here’s a little more information about mess can affect the mind.

How Mess Impacts Mental Health

For one, a messy home is often a sign that you are suffering with your mental health, especially depression, and you need some help to get back on your feet. It is one of the biggest signs of suffering, and not one to be ignored in yourself or those close to you.

However, mess also increases the amount of the stress hormone cortisol being produced by our bodies, and this can leave us feeling more anxious about our surroundings. Additionally, it increases heart rate and blood pressure to create even more tension in the body. It takes away your ability to focus properly and can lead to poor motivation when you need to get things done.

How Cleanliness Benefits the Mind

As you can imagine, having a clean home can massively benefit the mind. It reduces your cortisol levels so that you feel calmer and more relaxed in your environment, while also lowering blood pressure and heart rate. It can leave you feeling a lot lighter as well, alleviating anxiety and stress through the action of cleaning and the accompanying results.

When you are feeling depressed, it is easy to fall into a whirlpool of self-loathing and a lack of care for yourself. A clean home can help with feelings of self-worth and respect, as well as help you to feel more motivated to look after yourself better. Of course, this is easier said than done, but you can definitely do it, even if it is only slowly. Plus, if you are able to seek help from friends and family, it can make the process a smoother one.

Mess and Well-being

Having a messy home can have an impact on your general health and wellbeing as well as your mental state. It can lead to the air inside your home becoming dirtier than the outside, increasing the risk of allergy symptoms from occurring as well as asthma. It can even put you at higher risk of things like infections and illness as a result.

A lack of cleanliness and increased clutter can also affect our sleep, and studies have shown that we sleep better when the home is tidy. This is because the brain remains switched on a little during sleep when we have cluttered home because it is preoccupied with the mess we have left behind. Clutter and mess can also put you at risk of the following:

Fire
Broken bones
Falling

To Conclude:

Hopefully, this has shown you what happens when you leave your house a mess and the benefits that come with cleaning it up. We know it can be a struggle to motivate yourself when your mental health is suffering, but even doing a little bit every day can help massively and will eventually result in a tidy home. If you want to learn more about mess and mental health, we have a detailed guide on the topic that you can read through.

Guest Post by Will Tottle

About the Author

Will is a freelance writer, his blog can be seen here . If you are interested in more information on anything Vacuum related, then check out his ultimate vacuum guides for more details
Follow Will on Facebook or Google+

Life Hacks

11/26/2018

Today we are going to discuss life hacks. Life hacks are a convenient way of taking short cuts using tips and tools others have created for managing time, tasks, and stress. Then you can do what you do best! Sometimes that is to create, play, or connect with others in a meaningful manner for you.

My number one simple hack that works for my clients and myself is making lists. Whether they are the to-do lists, the life goal lists, the lists in creative writing, also known as free associations, they have allowed the mind-body connection. This helps with the completion of goals, tasks, and creative flow. It works with hand writing better than typing on a smart device or computer because it involves the brain, then moving the thoughts down through the body and out the arm in a mechanical way. I actually enjoy making lists and seeing the check mark next to each item as I complete the list, little by little. Feeling accomplished need not be a grand thing.

Try it!
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Life and Wellness Coach
-Nutrition Educator

Visit me at www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com
Superior Self with KJ Landis
This website is a marriage of science and spirituality, nutrition facts, and support to get you to your superior self!
www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com

Seriously, Are You Taking Yourself So Seriously?

11/19/2018

Are you taking yourself unnecessarily too seriously when losing weight? We all have desires, goals, wishes, and dreams. We work tirelessly and sometimes get tired on the way towards meeting our goals. It is natural to feel this way. When we are on our path we need eagle vision, but we must not block out all of life's simple joys and gains while working towards the goal, whether in diet, exercise, education, career, or relationship goals.

During the journey of lifestyle changes for the better that include losing weight and fat, we should go seek out comedy as much as possible. Go to the movies, go to a comedy club, watch old, favorite tv shows with comedy in them, and remember to tickle your kids! Laughing is so good for satisfying the body and brain on so many levels. The happy hormones are released, the circulation improves, the mood improves, and along with the laughter comes better choice making surrounding life's goals. I also know that laughing is a great abdominal workout. Laughing reduces blood pressure and anxiety. There’s even a whole movement around the world called laughter yoga that has been around since the 1980s.

I hope this helps you, dear readers.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
Visit me at www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com

Sleep Tips

11/12/2018

Is Poor Sleep Making You More Anxious?

Anxiety and sleep are connected: When we sleep less, we can feel more anxious. And when we feel anxious, it's harder to sleep. This cycle can be tough to break—and the consequences can be devastating. Insomnia can cripple school and work performance. When you don't get enough sleep, you have a higher risk of developing high blood pressure and heart disease, and may even be at a higher risk of some forms of cancer.

If you're struggling to fall asleep, or to sleep through the night, consider making some changes to your sleep hygiene. These are your nightly pre-sleep rituals and habits. Good sleep hygiene gives you a better chance for that refreshing night of sleep that makes you feel less anxious in the morning.

Keep a Tight Sleep Schedule: Sleep, like any habit, is highly sensitive to change. A consistent schedule sends strong signals to your brain about when it’s time to sleep and wake.

Exercise Regularly: Exercise is as good for your mind as it is for your body. Plan your exercise regimen for morning or afternoon. Give your body time to come down and soak in the relaxing effects of physical exercise.

Meditate: Mindfulness meditation brings your attention to the present experience by eliminating thoughts about the past and future. Since the past and future are the subject of most worries, mindfulness helps eliminate those anxiety-producing thoughts.

Dampen Distracting Noises: Sounds slightly above a whisper can disrupt our sleep. With sleep disruptors this quiet, you may not even know they’re affecting you. Try earplugs for a week and see if you notice a difference.

Turn Off Bad Lighting: The blue light of computer, tablet, and cell phone screens can make our minds think it's still light out. Avoid them before bed.

Get a Mattress and Pillow That Fits You: Pressure points build on our body while we sleep, and can cause pain that wakes us up. Change your mattress or pillow if you feel discomfort during the night.

For more helpful information, visit this guide to better sleep for people with anxiety.

Guest Post by Alyssa Eniss

Juggling Work and Family

11/5/2018

I think juggling work and family is difficult, especially as one's career gets more advanced.

As a life and wellness coach, I have always worked in the food service industry as well. When things in my entrepreneurial career were slow I always had the Hilton hotel restaurants to support me and my family, especially with health insurance for everybody.

As my life in fitness and writing advanced, the workshop bookings came pouring in, and I began to be asked to teach various exercise classes at different studios, as well as privately. I help people get healthy, please fat, and turn down the negative Nancy in their heads.
Losing 50 pounds myself gave me credibility, and so I needed to re-organize my work life in order to fit in my personal endeavors and my beautiful family of four.

The Hilton hotel is very gracious and allowed me to switch my shift so that I could finish earlier in the evenings, and then still get a good nights sleep in order to take my kids to school in the morning, teach exercise, exercise myself, and write weekly blogs and create videos.

I think having a personal need it to be early everywhere has afforded me the time to sit in my car and write my books. I literally hand wrote four books on composition notebooks that I purchased from the dollar store. Then I transferred them to the computer and edited, edited, edited.

Asking for help is one tool I used to organize and juggle my life. I asked for help from the Hilton, I ask for help from my husband with early morning childcare duties, I asked for help from the neighbors as babysitters, and I asked for help from my kids as they got older in order to be able to learn the technology stuff. My kids are my “mouse squad!”

I hope this helps readers jungle parenting in work.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

Healthy Desserts for the Holidays

10/29/2018

My family has given up sugar and gluten about 80 percent of the time, with a guilt free treat now and then. It has shifted our energy, mood, and overall fitness with those two shifts.

My daughter Sage (age 14) has been my assistant for four years at my “Grain Free Sugar Free Desserts” workshops in San Francisco.

We teach the community how to make raw chocolate bark with raw nuts, truffles, and also fondue with fruit. We use coconut oil, butter, coconut shreds, raw cacao nibs, cacao fat, and 100 percent raw chocolate bars. We also make lemon blueberry pound cake with coconut and almond flour. And Sage taught me how to stuff strawberries with homemade sugar free whipped cream.

For my sugar substitute I use Lakanto Golden brown sweetener. It is made from monk fruit and erythritol. It is the only natural sweetener that I have found that looks, smells, and tastes like brown sugar. I buy it on Amazon.com. It is cool to the tongue and had a 1:1 ratio to sugar. In Asia it is used for joint pain, colds, arthritis, diabetes, and lung issues. It has zero calories and is rated 0 on the glycemic index.

I hope this helps you during the holiday season
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator
Recipes
In all of the recipes. use organic ingredients when available and affordable.

Chocolate Bark, Fondue, and Truffle Base

6 Tablespoons salted butter
1/4 cup Xyla or Lakanto (natural sweeteners)
2 Tablespoons coconut milk
1 4-ounce bar of 100% chocolate, broken into pieces

Put a small pan or small soup pot on medium heat.
Add the butter and sweetener to pot. Stir until sweetener completely dissolves.
Add coconut milk and stir vigorously
Add chocolate pieces.
As the chocolate begins to melt, lower to low heat and continue stirring until smooth. Sometimes the chocolate is completely melted and mixed in, but has a grainy look within the smoothness, but that is fine. It depends on the country of the chocolate's origin.
Once everything is done melting, you are ready to enjoy!
For fondue, leave the pot on the lowest fire setting or on the table if the room is warm. Begin dipping your fruit or vegetables into the chocolaty goodness! For adventurous types, try dipping broccoli or carrots in the fondue!
For truffles, use a teaspoon and drop a teaspoon or more of the chocolate into mini candy molds or mini cupcake liners. Press shredded coconut, nuts, or dried fruits on top. Place in freezer at least one hour. Makes 18 truffles.
For bark, line a cookie sheet with parchment paper. Place nuts, seeds, or dried fruits on paper, then pour chocolate on top evenly covering the goodies. Freeze at least an hour. Enjoy!

~~~~~~~~~~
Stuffed Strawberries

1 dozen large strawberries
1/2 pint heavy whipping cream
optional chocolate sauce, see recipe above

Wash and dry strawberries.
Cut stems off.
Use a straw and pick out center of strawberries.
Using an electric mixer or whisk, whip cream in a bowl until stiff peaks form.
Spoon whipped cream into a large plastic bag.
Squeeze all of the whipped cream into one corner of the bag and cut off corner with a scissors.
Pipe the strawberries with the whipped cream by sticking the corner of the bag into the strawberry hole and squeeze.
If using chocolate sauce, drizzle sauce horizontally across strawberries. Enjoy!

Quick, Hot Breakfasts

10/22/2018

Recently, I was asked to contribute to an article about quick, hot breakfasts.

Breakfast is important for folks who are growing, like infants and children up to age 21. Their brains and bodies are growing. At the same time, we also must honor our natural hunger signals. Personally, I wasn’t hungry as a child in the mornings, but I honored my mom’s good intentions by having a grapefruit or toast, or both. Studies show that children do better in school when they have eaten a healthy breakfast.

As an adult, I have tea or coffee with cream and no sugar in the mornings. For the rest of the morning, I drink about a gallon of water with lemons and electrolytes sprinkled in during my heavy morning workouts. I workout about 2.5 to 3 hours or are training clients up and down the San Francisco hilly streets. The morning cream and lots of water keep me satiated until almost dinner. Again, my natural tendencies are to respect my own hunger signals. I’m not hungry in the mornings. If one is hungry in the morning, by all means, eat. Sometimes folks are hungry but don’t have time to get the whole family ready for the day and feed themselves too. It is what it is.

For those who are hungry, a 30 second scramble of eggs and cheese works great, adding in raw spinach or mushrooms for fiber. Literally, this high nutrient dense meal takes 30 seconds in a hot pan! Add butter or olive oil for more good fats.

I keep instant oatmeal packets at home and at work for a simple hot breakfast that only requires boiling water. For more nutrition, add a bit of dried fruits and raw tree nuts and seeds.

For those who like to snack on the go, I say breakfast can be organic non-GMO popcorn tossed with high protein nutritional yeast flakes and ghee. I also toss in mild curry powder for the anti-inflammatory properties.

I hope this helps you with a quick and hot breakfast that is good for you.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-Nutrition Educator
-CPT, CFI 

Single Parenting Transitions

10/15/2018

Any transition surrounded by drama or trauma makes the stress hormones increase. The emotions seem to fly off and one may not be able to control the laughing, crying, or anger, sadness, and anxiety that change may bring. Being responsible for children as a newly single parent can be especially trying on one's physical and emotional well being. Not only does one have to be single again, but also to adjust to the new and different needs that the kids may encounter as well.

Overwhelmed? Can't breathe? Are you suffering from a panic attack at times or just can't get out of bed? The first thing to do is slow down the breathing on purpose. Counting as one exhales to create the breathing twice as long on the exhale as on the inhale can be especially helpful. This physiological purposeful focus can help one calm down and find a bit of relief.

If one cannot bring themselves to be joyful and positive regularly, seek out friends and family to do activities together that bring joy to the suddenly single mom or dad. This gives the power of observation to the family and friends who are helping their loved one through a hard time. Listening to the newly single parent is really important. All of their thoughts, feelings, and emotions are real. Time may seem out of place. Regular tasks may seem daunting. Just having a support system is paramount to healing.

Seeing a medical professional is also an option. Getting out of one’s own way allows others to take the reigns in actionable steps that are helpful for the life changes surrounding a suddenly single parent.

Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator
-Life and Wellness Coach

Staycation, Anybody?

10/8/2018

With the pressures of inflation, our vacations may end up being staycations. Hey, it's not so bad. We rarely have the time or energy to discover recently opened stores and restaurants in our home town, and sometimes we miss cultural events we would love to participate in if we weren't so busy being busy!

As a life and wellness coach who lives in the most expensive city in the USA, my clients sometimes have told me that they just want to relax and enjoy San Francisco instead of traveling for their time off during vacation. I understand completely. As a person who has had staycations myself, I feel like exploring the hidden gems in my own home town can be fulfilling. It creates within me a new respect, pride, and admiration for the space I choose to live in. Staycations can bring a sense of fun, play, and adventure to one’s life. My kids and I used to play Mama Camp in the summers, treating my days and days off as a camp for locals who want to play and learn. I would seek out camp field trips on line and then copy the agenda for fun activities, bringing the whole family and a few kiddie friends too. Magical memories were made that I certainly remember and I hope shaped my children's lives for the better.

And then, when family and friends come into town, there are some unique experience worth sharing that aren’t on the general tourist radar!

Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-Nutrition Educator
-CFI, CPT

Exercise and Mental Health

10/1/2018

Today I'd like to touch upon exercise and mental health.

When we perform any sort of exercise there are pleasure hormones and feel good hormones released. This allows us to not only physically feel good, but also have a more upbeat and positive attitude about what is going on around us. We tend to see the glass as half full. If we exercise regularly, we regularly see a happier and healthier human. Movement gets us out of our head and allows us to focus on the physical details of the workout, no matter what type of workout it is.

The underlying causes of mental stress are many, and some behavioral disorders need to be attended to by a mental health professional. Seek out professional assistance if general overall well being does not improve with regular exercise, or if the impact and challenges of one’s day to day routine seem unbearable.

Having the opportunity to exercise need not be expensive or difficult. Sometimes a good walk can do wonders for our insides and our outsides!
What does exercising do for your attitude?

Blessings,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

Spark Joy in 2019

9/24/2018

Recently I was asked to contribute to an article about ideas for trends and goals in the health arena health for 2019.

Some of my clients have tried intermittent fasting, ketogenic eating styles, vegan, Paleo, etc. Sometimes we are so consumed with the eating styles and restrictions that we forget to add in the whole lifestyle balance. What happened to enjoying the process rather than just the progress?

This winter, let us make 2019 about adding light and laughter back into the mix. We have to eat our whole lives. Let’s not create torture out of an essential physiological need for fuel. When we see food as fuel for our entire lives, we can relax with a treat now and then. We can find food freedom. Whatever one does for his or her health most of the time shows up in life all of the time.

I think 2019 should include movement outdoors in nature to connect to the bigger picture of all of humanity and creatures, big and small. It should include exercising and cooking with friends rather than alone. It should include quiet and persistent action rather than just talking about goals and protocols one is on. Let the results do the talking in 2019. Celebration of small improvements in lifestyle will be important in 2019. We need to see the joy in every day activities that enhance our lives.

Spark joy in 2019.
Blessings,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator

Non Scale Victories

9/17/2018

I lost 50 pounds in 60 days 6 years ago. Big deal. So what? Did it change my whole existence? No, but my confidence level went up as my pants size went down.

The non-scale victory has been maintenance of my pants size throughout the past 6 years. I lost the weight in my late 40s. Most people gain all or part of their weight losses back within 2 years. So as I figured out my ever changing hormone levels and hypothyroidism, I was conscious not of the scale, which I dumped after the 50 pound fat loss, but conscious of my clothing size.

Like most women, I enjoy yoga leggings and everything with stretch fabric. It is easy to miss a weight or fat gain. The old fashioned jeans without Lycra spandex became my barometer. The great health I possess now with vibrancy is more important than a scale which measures the earth’s gravity pull upon me. To realize that was a big weight lifted off of my chest.

I hope this helps you, dear readers.
Sincerely,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series
-CPT, CFI
-Nutrition Educator and Workshop Facilitator
Visit me at www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com

Unconventional Yogi

9/10/2018

Recently I was asked to share my story about how I came to practice yoga.

I came to yoga in full force about 5 years ago, although my first experience was at the library community room when I was 14 or 15 years old. The instructor was in her 70s, with an Eastern European accent. She had a voice like velvet. At the end of every class she would pick up our ankles and bend us into a curved C shape, engaging our backbend for us. I loved her class every Saturday in the dark room. I was the youngest participant. I got bit by the big of yoga.

Over the years, fat or thin, pregnant or not, I kept returning to different types of yoga in order to recreate the sense of peace more than the stretching benefits.

Fast forward: about 5 years ago I was invited to a Bikram hot yoga class for free in my area. I was recovering from 3RD degree burns from a water explosion on my stomach thighs and vagina. I thought the heat and intensity of the class would help with cell turnover and assist in the scar tissue lightening and getting softer and thinner.

It worked. Another bug bit me and now I’m a dedicated yogi. I feel more at peace with my scars no matter what shape, firmness, and size they are. I have learned through the struggle of the poses that everyday challenges never go away, they just change shape and toughness too. And it’s all good. It’s all learning. I have also learned that my troubles will be waiting outside the hot room when I’m done. Just leave it all outside.

What’s your story? I want to hear.
Blessings,
KJ Landis
-Author and Creator of the Superior Self series

Visit me at www.superiorselfwithkjlandis.com